Occupation 

AI / Machine Learning 

Education

Some College

Hobby

Working on vintage electronics, amateur radio, 3d printing & collecting antique calculators and tools

Favorite Food

BBQ & Tacos

Favorite Holiday

Thanksgiving

Favorite Movie

The Matrix 

Favorite Place to Travel

France

Occupation 

Data Validation

Education

Some College

Hobby

Crafting, baking, photography & antique shopping

Favorite Food

Sushi & Mexican

Favorite Holiday

Halloween

Favorite Movie

Ms. Congeniality

Favorite Place to Travel

Mexico

Our Story

Doug and I met in high school in a photography class and quickly became close friends. After graduation, we went our separate ways, but reconnected three years later when I needed help fixing a laptop. As we spent more time together, our friendship grew into something more. He always made me laugh and was endlessly patient, and we soon realized how much we truly had in common.

Three years into dating, Doug planned a night at one of our favorite restaurants. After dinner, we walked through a park downtown, where he surprised me with a proposal. It was completely unexpected and filled with so much joy.

We were married in February 2017 at my childhood home, where our families helped transform the backyard into a beautiful outdoor wedding. Surrounded by loved ones, it was the perfect start to our life together.



Since then, we’ve built a life centered around love, support, and the simple joys of everyday moments like cooking together, playing games with friends, or relaxing at home. We’ve grown as a team through life’s ups and downs and are excited for the next chapter as we look forward to becoming parents and sharing our love with a child.

Our Home

We bought our home in 2020. It’s a one-story house with three bedrooms and two full baths, and we have a large front and back yard with plenty of space to play outside.

Although our neighborhood is older, its unique “small town” feel gives us a sense of safety and community. We’re within walking or bike-riding distance to three of the best schools in our district, including the elementary school Pamela attended and where her father once taught. The neighborhood has a few parks and jungle gyms where kids can play safely, and our neighbors are all wonderful people. We feel safe here, and crime is virtually nonexistent, which gives us peace of mind about raising a child.

In our home, we have a large room set aside as the nursery. It has plenty of room for a crib, toys, and a cozy place to read books and play together. We look forward to decorating it and turning it into a warm and happy space as we prepare to welcome a child into our home.

The city we live in is close enough to downtown yet far enough away to keep its small-town feel. Just a few blocks from our home is a large public park with a fishing pond, mini golf, a walking trail, and a playground.

Our downtown square is always having some event, whether it’s a farmers’ market, a music festival, or a holiday celebration! There are lots of great restaurants that serve good comfort foods, as well as places that have exotic and new things to try.

We’re surrounded by great parks and nature areas where we can escape the noise of life, have a quiet picnic, and hike the trails.

My family and I are very close and often spend time together, usually over a meal, camping, or working on a project in the garage. My parents live nearby, and my younger brother lives just a few houses away, so we’re able to see each other regularly and stay involved in each other’s lives.

My parents have been married for over 35 years and have built a strong, steady family. They are incredibly excited to welcome their first grandchild and are looking forward to spending time together, being involved, and creating lasting memories. We know our child will grow up surrounded by love and support.

My dad’s side of the family is from Texas with a background in farming, while my mom grew up in a military family and lived in different parts of the U.S. Most of our family is now here in Texas, with some relatives in Arkansas and Baltimore, and we make it a priority to stay connected and value our time together.

My brother and I are very close and spend a lot of time together, whether it’s fishing, walking in nearby parks, going to comedy shows, or just hanging out.

Pamela's Family

I feel very fortunate to have such a close relationship with my family, and most of us live in the same city or state, with the exception of one sister who lives in France. Because we are within driving distance of one another, we enjoy weekend visits at each other’s homes to spend time together. When my sister and her family come for summer visits, everyone makes room in their busy schedules so we can all be together and explore our city and the surrounding areas.

My family comes from generations of musicians, artists, and educators. Between my siblings and me, we’ve all either played an instrument or pursued some form of artistic or educational path. Because of this, my nieces and nephews have embraced many of the same talents. We love supporting them at their rock concerts, piano recitals, ballet performances, and choir concerts.



With such a large family, it isn’t always possible for everyone to be together at once. However, when we are together, we truly cherish it and make the most of our time. Growing up, I have wonderful memories of being surrounded by aunts, uncles, grandparents, and cousins. Now that we all have families of our own, we try to create those same kinds of memories for the next generation.

Douglas & Pamela - A Look Into Our Life

Our Silly Cats 

Doug adopted Pixel a year before we started dating, and she was quite the sassy kitten! She loved getting into everything and somehow always seemed to know she could get away with it. A few months after we got married, we decided to adopt another kitten, so we went to the shelter. That’s where we met Adeline. As soon as she flopped down in front of us, we knew she was coming home with us.



Pixel and Adeline love running around and chasing each other, often right when we’re getting ready for bed. They can be pretty silly, sliding and skidding across the house as they play. When we have guests over, they tend to be more reserved and usually nap in our room until everyone leaves. But offer them a treat, and you’ll quickly become their best friend!

Fun Times Ahead

There are so many things we can’t wait to do with our child! Close to home, there is a water park where we buy season passes each year, and weekends are often spent floating the lazy river or racing down the slides. Sharing our hobbies as they grow is something we’re especially excited about. That includes working on tech projects and tinkering, playing with Doug’s radios, as well as crafting and baking together.

It’s easy to picture teaching them how things work, helping them build and create, and encouraging whatever interests they discover along the way. We also look forward to traveling together, attending local events and conventions, and spending time outdoors. One of the things we’re especially excited about is taking them camping in Doug’s parents’ camper and introducing them to campfires and weekends away.

We also look forward to them making friends with other kids in the neighborhood. Building a life full of love, experiences, and memories together as a family is something we can’t wait for!

Let's Travel

Traveling is something we both really enjoy, and we feel fortunate to have visited many places around the world. Since Pamela has family in Mexico, we try to visit them at least once a year. We’ve also been blessed to travel to Europe, where her sister and cousins live. Our dream is to return to these beautiful places one day and share those experiences with our little one, introducing them to the different cultures these countries have to offer.



Cruising is one of our favorite ways to travel. Whenever the opportunity arises, Doug and I enjoy taking cruises to Mexico, either just the two of us or with family. We’ve also had the chance to take an Alaskan cruise, which has been one of our favorite vacations so far. Cruises give us the chance to explore new places, relax for a week away from home, enjoy beautiful beaches, and unplug from our everyday routine.

Holiday Traditions

Holidays are a big deal to us, and we love celebrating with family, traditions, and fun. Halloween is one of our favorites. We start decorating early, filling our home with festive touches, host a party with friends, and enjoy passing out candy while seeing all the creative costumes on Halloween night.

Día de los Muertos is a meaningful tradition in our family. We create an ofrenda with photos, candles, and special items to honor loved ones, spending time together sharing stories and remembering their lives.

We usually spend Thanksgiving in Arkansas with Doug’s family, enjoying a traditional meal and relaxing together while watching Planes, Trains, and Automobiles. Christmas Eve is spent with Pamela’s family, where the kids prepare for Santa, and on Christmas Day we celebrate with Doug’s family by opening gifts, sharing a meal, and playing games.

New Year’s is one of the most important holidays for Pamela’s family. We gather with family and friends, and at midnight celebrate with music, hugs, and gratitude for the year ahead. We also celebrate Three Kings Day, continuing the holiday season with meaningful traditions centered around family and togetherness.