One of the most meaningful parts of today’s adoption process is that you have a voice in choosing who will raise your child. For many expectant mothers and birth parents, this is the second biggest decision, right after deciding to make an adoption plan. It is a deeply personal choice, and you do not have to make it alone. At Adoption Angels, every hopeful adoptive family is carefully screened before they are ever presented to you. Our goal is to give you confidence, clarity, and peace of mind as you consider what is best for your child’s future. Who Are the Potential Adoptive Families? Families who hope to adopt come from all walks of life. They represent a wide range of backgrounds, cultures, careers, and lifestyles, but they all share one thing in common. They have a deep desire to love and raise a child. Many have experienced infertility and carry the heartbreak that comes with it. Their journey to adoption is filled with hope, commitment, and a genuine readiness to become parents. Who Is Eligible to Adopt Through Adoption Angels? We hold our adoptive families to high standards to ensure every child is placed in a safe, stable, and loving home. To apply, families must generally meet the following: Be between the ages of 25 and 45 Be married for at least three years, with some exceptions Have a documented medical infertility diagnosis We are also committed to inclusive adoption practices and do not accept families who are only open to Caucasian or half Caucasian children. How Are Families Screened? Adoption is a thorough and thoughtful process. Every family completes extensive screening and documentation, including: Criminal check clearances FBI fingerprinting clearances Completed physical examination forms Employment verification Financial statement Most recent Income Tax Return Copies of Birth Certificates Copy of Marriage Certificate Child abuse and neglect clearances Sex offender clearances One photo of the front and back of the home Individual autobiographies Reference letters Proof of insurance (home, health, auto, life, etc.) This process ensures that every family you consider has been carefully evaluated and is fully prepared to provide a safe and nurturing home. How Do I Choose the Right Family? Choosing an adoptive family is about what feels right to you. With the support of your adoption counselor, you will explore your hopes and vision for your child’s future. You might think about questions like these: Do you want your child to grow up with siblings or be the oldest? What type of environment feels right, such as a big city, small town, or rural setting? Are shared values like religion, education, or lifestyle important to you? Do you want a family who shares your interests, such as music, travel, pets, or traditions? As you look through family profiles, remember they are likely feeling just as nervous and hopeful as you are. Their stories, photos, and letters are meant to give you a glimpse into their lives and the love they are ready to give. Keep an open heart. You may find a connection where you least expect it. When It Feels Right, It Is a Match When you choose a family and they feel the same connection, you will have the opportunity to meet or speak with them. Many birth parents find that building a relationship before the baby arrives helps ease anxiety and creates a sense of reassurance. We Are Here for You Every Step of the Way At Adoption Angels, we are honored to walk alongside you during this important journey. Our team is here to support you, answer your questions, and help you find the right family for your child. You can explore waiting families at any time, and when you are ready, reach out to us: Call or text 24 7 at (210) 227 2229 or fill out our online contact form . Reaching out does not mean you are committing to adoption. It simply means you are getting the information and support you deserve.

Women often ask, “What happens after I place my child with their new adoptive family?” More than anyone in the adoption experience, a birth mother needs counseling, support, and an outlet to express her emotions after placement. There is life after adoption. Take a closer look at the many post-placement support services available to you. Did I Make the Right Decision? You decided early on that adoption was the best choice for your unplanned pregnancy. A few months later, you chose the perfect adoptive couple to raise your child. Meeting them confirmed they were the right choice. It was hard to let go of your baby to them after giving birth, but you knew it was best for everyone. Now what? How do you move forward with your life as a birth mother? Feelings of doubt are natural for all birth mothers. As a mother, you instinctively want to protect your child. Hopefully, you received thorough counseling throughout your adoption journey to determine what was best. Lindsay Arielle is a birth mother and blogger for Considering Adoption.com . She has written for years about her journey of healing. Reading her blog is a source of comfort for many birth mothers. Why Do I Feel so Alone? You can feel extremely isolated after placing your child for adoption. Very few people understand your decision. If their opinions aren’t favorable toward adoption, you may feel unable to express your grief and pain openly. They may say, “Well, you made the choice. Now live with it.” You did make a choice, but you don’t have to live alone with your decision. There are many online support groups to walk this journey with you. The following are a few you may want to consider joining: Birth Moms Today Featuring “The Post-Adoption Journey Guide.” This site offers many benefits, such as a workshop, grief recovery support, 24/7 membership to the support group, and unlimited email support. Brave Love This site lists established support groups by state. For instance, several groups in Texas meet either in person or online. You can also view videos of birth mothers who share their individual experiences. Knee to Knee The group offers post-placement support groups, a free self-love journal project, a birth mother registry, and a support curriculum. Concerned United Birth Parents CUB sponsors annual retreats. Their next retreat is October 13 - 15, 2023. In addition, they offer monthly CUB Zoom Support Group meetings. On Your Feet Foundation On Your Feet offers monthly virtual birth parent support groups, a birth mom-to-birth mom mentor program, retreats, and Create!, a Birth Parent’s Arts Grant. Three Strands FB group This FB group is open to birth mothers, adoptees, and adoptive moms. It’s a great place to ask questions and hear stories of the experiences of others. How Can You Help Me? At Adoption Angels, we understand the need for post-placement counseling and support services. We offer free counseling to help you throughout your adoption journey and beyond. Placing your child for adoption can be painful, but you don’t have to walk your post-placement journey alone. Let us help you as you heal. You have so much to offer your child. As Lindsay Arielle writes, “Healing is a journey, not a destination.” There is a brighter future for you ahead. To discuss placing your child for adoption or your need for post-adoption support, please fill out our confidential online contact form or call or text (210) 227-2229. We’re here for you.

Adoption, in and of itself, involves unique conversations with your child. Biological children never ask questions about their “real” parents or why they don’t look like the rest of the family. When you adopt transracially, you have another set of questions that you must tackle. Gone are the days when we can say the world is “colorblind.” To be colorblind means you miss the special qualities of each race. It is up to parents to instill in their children, adopted or not, a strong sense of security and identity. Here are some tips to get the discussion about race and racism started with your adopted child and others. It Is Never Too Early to Begin a Conversation Just as it’s never too early to begin presenting the idea of adoption, talking about a child’s race or ethnicity should also start early. Make sure you understand the differences in the terms you discuss. Race. Although we are all members of the human race, the word takes on a different meaning for us today. Now, race describes physical characteristics, such as skin color, facial features, hair color and texture, or eye color. Ethnicity. Ethnic traits include a person’s culture, language, traditions, and place of origin. Nationality. This term refers to the nation in which a person is a legal citizen. So, whether you are of Asian or Mexican descent but were born in the United States, your nationality is American. Culture. The beliefs, customs, and behaviors of a particular group. Heritage. A person’s heritage is the cultural practices, values, and life experiences that have been passed down through the generations. Ways to Reinforce the Conversation Begin from the moment you are matched with a child to understand the various cultural and ethnic traditions. Add the following practices to your life and routines: Find children’s books about your child’s ethnicity and culture. Instruct family and friends about the words that are acceptable in your family and those that aren’t. Terms like “Oriental,” “colored,” or “mixed-race,” for example, are inappropriate. If possible, live in a diverse community. If that’s not possible, find a mentor or group your child can work with to reinforce their culture and ethnic background. Celebrate their culture’s traditions and holidays. Ensure your child understands all of the terms that others may use to describe them, especially which terms are inappropriate. If your child experiences racism or a negative racial incident, help them understand the emotions behind it and teach them how to combat these behaviors. Set a good example for your child by actively fighting against racism. Reaffirm regularly that adoption allows families to be created in special ways. Not every family member has to look the same. Let Adoption Angels Assist You  The team at Adoption Angels strongly believes in educating everyone in the adoption process. If your adoption is transracial, we will help you find the resources you need. We emphasize the importance of semi-open and open adoptions , allowing you to build a relationship with your child’s biological family. As you interact with them, we encourage you to discuss their specific heritage and cultural traditions. Adoption is a multi-faceted experience. It’s unique for everyone. At Adoption Angels, we become an integral part of your experience, treating you as if you were family. We help you navigate the specific nuances and ensure you have as much information as possible to have a successful parenting journey. If you are interested in adopting through Adoption Angels, please start the process by completing our potential adoptive parent form . We will email you an information packet and provide instructions on how to get started. We look forward to working with you!

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